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Domestic Abuse

Domestic Abuse Lawyers

No one should suffer any form of abuse. It's our job to ensure you understand how the law can protect you in seeking help.
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We understand the strength and courage it takes to seek help to get out of an abusive relationship as no one should have to suffer from domestic abuse, harassment or violence.

Our special family lawyers are all members of Resolution, an organisation committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes through non-confrontational communication.

There is increasing awareness around abuse and the forms in which it can take, however there are still many people that continue to suffer. We understand how difficult it can be to seek help, which is why we will lead you through the law in a sensitive, supportive and discrete way. 

What is classified as Domestic Abuse?

The general working definition accepted by legal professionals is:

“Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. The abuse can include, but is not limited to psychological, physical, sexual, financial and emotional.”

Domestic Abuse can also include:

Coercive Control

The definitions of which are:

  • Coercive behaviour – An act, or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten the victim.
  • Controlling behaviour – A range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.


The term refers to a form of intimidation or psychological abuse where false information is presented to the victim, in order to encourage them to doubt their memory and perception.

Five key characteristics of gaslighting:

  • Manipulation
  • Denial
  • Misdirection
  • Contradiction
  • Lying

Economic/Financial Abuse

The restriction of access to essential resources (food, clothing or transport) and restricting the possibility of a person being able to improve their economic status (not allowing a person to go for a promotion, obtain employment, training or education).

The victim is then reliant on the abuser for financial support, in a controlling and restrictive manner.

Looking for information and help regarding Domestic Abuse? Please get in touch with a member of our team to talk to us in complete confidence.

Who to speak to at Comptons

Kiran Reyat
Head of Family Law
+44 (0)20 4538 5417

"Thank you so much for today. It honestly was a breath of fresh air speaking to you. I have had two awful experiences with solicitors and it feels good to finally have someone on my side."

What Orders can I apply for if I am the victim of Domestic Abuse?

A victim of domestic abuse can seek relief in the Family Court by obtaining:

1. Harassment Order under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997

Harassment is both a criminal offence and a civil action under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997. This means that someone can be prosecuted in the criminal courts if they harass you. It also means you can take action against the person in the civil courts.

2. Non-Molestation Order under the Family Act 1996

The word ‘molestation’ covers not only violence and threats of violence, but also pestering. In accordance with section 42 (5) of the Family Law Act 1996 the Court must have regard to all circumstances including the need to secure health, safety and well-being for the Applicant. Provided the Applicant can show a genuine need for protection a non-molestation order will be granted.

Breach of a Non-Molestation Order 

Section 43A of the FLA 1996 makes breach of a non-molestation order a criminal offence punishable by up to 5 years imprisonment on indictment and 12 months imprisonment on conviction in the Magistrates’ Court.

Where a Respondent breaches a non-molestation order they will be arrested for the crime of breaching the order and can be charged and brought before a criminal court. The prosecution will be handled by the CPS and the solicitors for the complainant will not play any role.

The penalty for breaking an occupation order can be up to two years in jail where a power of arrest was attached to the order or a fine of up to £5,000.

3. Occupation Order under the Family Law Act 1996

Under sections 33 and 35 to 38 of the Family Law Act 1996, an Occupation Order allows the Court to decide who should live, or not live, in the home or any part of it. The Order can also exclude the other person from an area around the home.

What can I do if I am concerned about my new partner and whether they have previously been abusive to a partner?

The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme is often called ‘Clare’s Law‘ after the landmark case that led to it. Clare’s Law gives any member of the public the right to ask the police if their partner may pose a risk to them.